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We’d spent the afternoon with my SIL at the nursing home. It was her birthday and we brought flowers, a gift and a balloon. Her daughter, sister and other brother were also there.
We had cake.
We tried, but she was having none of it. She didn’t want us there, didn’t talk to us, didn’t enjoy any of it. And while her attitude was sad, a part of me felt it was also selfish. There are people in that home who have no one. No hot and cold running visitors bringing them everything they ask for. No devoted daughter taking care of their bills and legal issues. No flowers, no balloons, no celebration. Yes, her situation is sad… but stewing in self pity and being blind to those trying to help is no way to live.
Anyway… after that?
I required an adult beverage.
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Passion fruit lemon drop to the rescue.
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With a large rooster keeping us company.
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Appetizer for the husband was baked cheesy meatballs.
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Creamy corn chowder and a grilled pineapple margarita pour moi.
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We were dining at the Tuscan Bistro which rarely disappoints.
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Shrimp scampi with fresh fettuccini for the husband.
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Shrimp risotto with tomato jam, corn, roasted red peppers and a strawberry Sangria for me.
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Both were fabulous and filling…. but not filling enough to pass up the Tiramisu.
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Perfect!
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River's world..... 
I’m sorry you were subjected to that. Hopefully with a little time her attitude and mood will change. As for those baked cheesy meatballs? I want some!
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I’m not a huge meatball fan but these were a combination of pork and beef with the perfect spices. Yum.
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You earned that nice meal and beverage. I am with you on the selfish thing. Your SIL is lucky to have so many people who care.
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I think she’s so wrapped up in her unhappiness she just doesn’t see it.
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The drinks and meal look 👌😋. Well deserved after the ordeal. Not an easy situation😔.
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It’s emotionally exhausting.
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Oh wow the tiramisu looks amazing
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It was!
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So sorry about your SIL – you definitely deserve your adult beverage!
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It’s sad that your SIL isn’t appreciative of her family trying to make her birthday a happy one. But people who participate in self pity will never see beyond anything but their bad situation. Finally got a great review for your lunch out! The last couple of outings have been disappointing as far as the food was concerned. What caught my eye was the charred pineapple margarita!
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To be honest that was a little smokey for my taste. But I managed not to poke my eye out with the pointy leaf garnish so I’m calling it a win.
😉
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Your SIL sounds a bit angry too … it is the pits when ones switchboard goes south. I fear dementia far more than I fear violence …
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You pegged it. She is angry… at the world, and life in general.
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I’m sorry for the situation. You’re right when you say that so many have no one. It’s sad. The food looked good, though.
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I would have skipped the food and tried all the dranks, minus the bloody mary. I see you came close… yay!!!
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I try…
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You’re Appetizer and your Husband’s Dinner would have been great for me. I’m sure it’s hard being in one of those places. Sometimes, we just have to give them a break and put ourselves in their situation.
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I would never say any of those things to her. That’s why blogging is so wonderful… I can vent in peace.
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There is always room in life for tiramasu
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That’s my motto.
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And mine. 😊
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I told Tara I want to make meatballs this week and gave her a list of four possible dishes that would satisfy the craving. Tuesday, we will be having albondigas. Sadly, without any of those great-looking cocktails!
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Is that a meatball soup…?
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It sure is!
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I’m with you; your SIL is being selfish. I can only guess she’s physically feeling miserable, so it’s coming out.
All your food looked delicious; well earned for doing your family duty!
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