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54 years ago this week my husband drove to upstate New York for a concert.
But not just any concert, no.
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He went to the greatest single musical event in rock and roll history. And since my husband is my husband, he took a look around, breathed in the heavily herbed air, didn’t like what he saw… and left.
Woodstock.
My husband went to Woodstock… and left.
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He didn’t see the Dead, Santana, or CSN.
He didn’t see Hendrix or Joplin or CCR.
I still can’t wrap my mind around it. And I swear if I had known this before we married it might have been a deal breaker.
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That is one impressive lineup of musical performances! Does he regret it?
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Oddly enough, no.
But I regret it enough for both of us…. seeing that I was only 5 at the time and couldn’t attend.
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I regret it enough for the three of you, plus a bonus regret for me!
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That’s a wild story… could have been my story too… that’s how square I am.
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For my husband it was the drugs. He’s not square per se, just can’t abide or understand drug use.
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That’s what I was referring to in regards to being square. Aside from 2nd hand concert smoke I never indulged in anything except for the consumption of alcohol.
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That’s my spouse as well. I think the idea of giving up control frightens him.
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I have often thought about it. But I always figured my thoughts can be so outside the box that the use of drugs of any kind felt unnecessary.
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I admit I partook back in the day, recreationally….
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The fallacy in that idea Is alcohol takes away more control than most street drugs. I confined myself to three, marijuana, LSD, and a diet pill cslled dexedrine, which was an amphetimine. The only one I regretted wzs the dexies, I got my first drntal plate when I was 25. Been living with them ever since.The others did things for me alcohol could never do.
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Well to each his own my friend 😁
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I don’t touch anything anymore, not caffeine or nicotine, or anything. But especially alcohol. As an addictions’s counsellor I saw too many families, and lives, destroyed. Nevervagain!
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Right. Well I don’t drink anymore. As square as can be these days. My vice is food.
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Mine is blogging! 🤣🤣🤣🙃😇😇😇
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Hey, Matt. I thought you sent me a link to something you wanted published on Tecumseh and Friends, but either I lost track of it, or naybe I only thought you sent it. Something about a comic book. If you haven’t sent it yet, please send it to tecumsehandfriends@gmail.com
Thank you very much.
Tecumseh
PS My Daddy is such a scatterbrain! But I love him anyway.
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Coulda sworn i emailed it yesterday
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I thought you had, but I went through my emails and I had nothing, in any folder. I’ll look again.
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I sent the email 3 times. I hope you got it. Maybe it went to spam because of my attachments ?
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What is your rmail address pleae. I have nothing yet!
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mattsnyder1970@gmail.com
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Responded directly to your personal email. So i hope ya finally get it
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Me too
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Dexies! I remember those…
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Sweet when you’re on them, but they leech calcium from the teeth and bones. One reason why my health is what it is these days — gone!
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To be honest I never liked speed, though they were great diet aids…
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I didn’t know this was a speed drug when I first used it. A girl I was going with gave me some, and I was hooked before I knew it. But we broke up, and my source dried up. After I went through withdrawals, I knew I would never touch speed again. But it was too late. My teeth and bones were already ruined.
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Not to mention I was just starting my 9 month journey into the world at large.
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I was 5. A little young for Woodstock…
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I know I read 😁
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Let’s see – I was 23 and a Summer intern where I worked was going with a bunch of friends and invited me to go along. She was just going to not come into work whereas I had bills to pay and couldn’t take the time off. Besides I don’t camp! No regrets. Yes, it was the time of sex, drugs and rock ‘n roll – Only two of the three interested me – like your husband drugs were never on my list of “things to do” because being ‘not in control’ was not a position I ever want to be.
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I guess I was more of a free spirit when I was young. Went to an outdoor musical festival in NH that lasted 3 days in the early 80’s. Close as I got to Woodstock, though it did rain. 🤣
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To quote Joan Rivers “My idea of roughing it is staying in a hotel with no room service” I’m a Libra – we don’t do mud, camping et al. I didn’t even crawl when I was a baby – didn’t like getting my hands dirty LOL
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Oh, I’m with you there. My idea of camping is a two bedroom condo… I need my modern conveniences.
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Years ago I worked with a woman who did the same thing. Drove to Woodstock with friends, looked it over, then drove back home. They were unimpressed. I was gobsmacked when she admitted this, but there you go. Woodstock wasn’t for everyone.
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In my day? I would have been right in the thick of it.
❤️
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What the literal hell!?!?
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I know!
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In Winnipeg, we had no idea Woodstock was happening till it was all over. I don’t know if I ckuld have got there, had I known, but I sure as hell would not have walked away. I’m sorry, but aocohol is more dangerous than most street drugs we hippies were using. It might be legal, but that’s only because no one has the guts to de-legalize it.
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Yes, but at least he didn’t get trenchfoot!
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No. He got that in Vietnam…
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😱
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I guess it wasn’t for everyone. For me it would have been the crowds that sent me packing.
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I doubt I’d enjoy it now, at my advanced age of 59…. But when I was young? I’d have loved it.
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Ha! Just his luck to leave something that would keep showing up in his life.
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And you know I remind him every year.
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Oh lord! Can you imagine?? I can’t!
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He never should have told me…. because I never plan to let him live it down.
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Sounds like perfect marital protocol.
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It’s tragic and funny. I’d have probably done the same thing. My bed at home is very cosy and there is v little mud in our house.
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Even though I was barely alive, I’m a huge fan of Woodstock today. The idea of getting through all the traffic and turmoil, only to turn around without even giving it a chance, boggles my mind.
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I know. I’ve never been able to wrap my mind around it either. And he was there on the first day… it wasn’t even raining yet!
😖
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The mud was the best part though! OK, that and some dude named Hendrix, I s’pose…
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