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Old home week… in remembrance.

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While I was cleaning and organizing closets?

My husband was flying down to Jacksonville North Carolina for a long weekend to attend his old squadron’s 40 year remembrance reunion of the Beirut bombing.

I went to the 30th ten years ago and as you might imagine, spent most of my time standing around waiting for my husband to stop talking. And though he really wanted me to go with him again, I passed.

Though I did miss visiting with our daughter of the heart, her husband and an old Marine Corps buddy…

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I knew my husband would be better off alone on this quick trip… free to catch up and have endless conversations with fellow Marines without me tapping my toe in the background.

He argued, but in the end I was right and he had a great time.

Here are a few highlights.

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The major event was the ceremony at the Beirut Memorial.

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241 servicemen lost their lives that horrible day in 1983 and the Corps does not forget their sacrifice.

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This statue is a new addition to the park and honors the Navy Corpsmen who treat and protect our Marines in combat.

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The current Commandant of the Marine Corps gave a very moving speech. The husband videoed the whole thing but I’ll just drop a photo.

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The old gentleman in the middle is General Grey. He was the Commandant in 1983 and attends this ceremony of remembrance every single year. He’s 95 years of age now and is positively beloved by the Corps.

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This is my husband with Colonel Gerahty. They served together on the USS Iwo Jima and were standing on the deck of the ship side by side when the building was bombed. I can tell by my husband’s face this was an emotional reunion.

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Being a multi national peace keeping force in 1983, the Italian Navy sent representatives.

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Some with very spiffy hats.

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My husband with the French representatives.

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Crying… and laughing at the same time.

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It’s fallen to me to gather old photos of my husband’s late sister for her celebration of life.

Her daughter is still having a hard time…so the get together will be small, informal, and at her home. I’m going to set up a table of remembrance with flowers, this plaque…

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A guest book where people can share memories…

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A flameless candle…

And a large digital frame filled with pictures that will play continuously like a slideshow.

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It’s been bittersweet collecting and uploading the photographs.

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Life.

It’s fleeting…

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And over far too soon.

I shed quite a few tears looking at the 160 pictures I’ve pulled together, but every once in a while I’d smile. Like when I found this old family portrait proof of my husband and his 8 brother and sisters. (Hint- he’s the one in uniform. Top left.)

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And sometimes I even laughed.

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That’s my husband, standing behind his late sister on the right. The couple with them had just gotten married and I think he was the best man.

I may have to print one of these for framing.

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