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Since I’m not on board with any of the hideous fabrics associated with the living room set my husband chose, shopping continues.
I stepped it up a notch last week and took him to an Ethan Allen showroom. And aside from the fact it was the smallest store we’d been to, they only had one hard backed sofa.
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Which was too low, too square and too soft for my Goldilocks spouse.
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Factor in most of their couches were over $5,000 a piece, even the simple ones like this, and it was a hard pass.
Next up was the store where I started my search with my girlfriend a few months ago. They had two sets I thought might work.
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But Mr, Picky vetoed this one because of the T shaped couch cushions.
Really?
At this point I thought he was just being obstinate on purpose and didn’t want new furniture. But when I brought him to set #2….
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Hard backed, rolled full arms, not too deep, available with firm cushions.
Could it be?
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A long discussion was had with the (very patient) salesman about features and quality…
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These arms were an eighth of an inch different in size… noticeable to no one on earth except my husband who worked quality control in the Marine Corps.
But despite the glaring anomaly, the husband agreed that this set might work. They even had the pattern he’d picked out at a previous store, seen on the back of the chair above.
I vetoed that as it was probably too light for our white walls and rather liked this one.
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When I asked if I could bring a few swatches home, I was told yes… for a price. For a deposit of $50 each I came home with 5. The $263 to be refunded to my card when I returned them.
Geesh.
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Lord Dudley seemed partial to this one.
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But as I suspected…. it’s too light and bright for our all white walls not to mention my husband’s feet on an ottoman.
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I need more contrast of color and though I really didn’t want blue….
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This one might work.
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Not to start something but your hubby looks too big for that chair or it may just my preference for high back chairs/sofas etc. I like to be able to rest my head…Could be I’ve been living with recliners for too long…
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Oddly enough I don’t think a high headrest is one of his requirements… but I take your point, that chair did look small.
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‘Sofa’, so good, I suppose….
But only The Shadow knows.
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At this point I think he’s confused as well…
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At this point, how have you not killed yourself or hubby?!?
I hope it all works out!!
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I’ve lived with the man for 40 years so you know I have patience…. but this experience is wearing out even mine.
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I’d probably be more than a tad insane by now.
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Frustration, anger, exhaustion…. after months of that I’ve actually reached the point where it’s becoming funny.
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OMG the salesman face towards you looks like How are you married to this guy, his lordship looks indifferent like “Are you ever gonna get new furniture ?”
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The sad thing is that poor salesman worked hard to please the husband … not knowing it’s an almost impossible task.
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I am quite amazed. When Tess wants new furniture the only input I am allowed is whether we are driving her car or mine to the furniture stores.
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If only.
I should have started with that rule in place… I buy what I want, you sit on it and be quiet. Much simpler.
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I’m glad you had the good sense to check with your cat.
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His Lordship must have input…
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T shaped couch cushions are stylish and practical. Easier to turn them over and keep the sofa looking new. Mr. Picky, BLESS HIS HEART, might not understand how furniture works.
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I lived down south for 17 years, I know what BLESS HIS HEART means.
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Hey, if your Hubby is comfortable, you’ve done well. I must say I like Lord Dudley’s choice..but the blue is nice, too.
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I’m not sure my husband is going to be happy with anything at this point. And all our walls are off white, that fabric is simply too light.
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This made me realize that it doesn’t matter if the fabric goes with your drapes, carpets, etc. It really should mesh with your pet’s fur colors. 😉
They say people get stuck in their ways as they age, but clearly your husband is getting more chill. His ability to overlook that 1/8 inch width difference shows real growth, man. 😉
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Chill is not a word that’s ever been used to describe my husband..
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Charging for swatches? That’s a first! I guess people walk away with them, but…why?
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I could understand a small deposit, but $50 per when your want to bring home a dozen seems excessive. They also wanted them back in 3 days… we live an hour away.
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Agreed!
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I think I furnished our entire Georgia house faster than you can pick out a couch and chair. 🫣
Have you considered Leather?
Or maybe not getting a *set* with a matching couch and chair?
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We have leather in the man cave but with a cat it’s not a good idea. That… and my hot flashes make it uncomfortable. 😉
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